11 Habits For Success: #6 Plan. Work. Plan.

Posted by on Jul 31, 2012 in change, coaching, effectiveness, goals, life, Life Coach, planning | 3 comments

If you follow my Twitter feed (and why don’t you? www.twitter.com/MattBrianReed ), you know that I am a huge fan of the site www.lifehack.com . They continually provide excellent information and inspiration to make life better in all areas. This series is inspired by this post by David Loker

Previous entries: #1 Values #2 Focus #3 Deadlines #4 Change Your Mind #5 Rewards

Imagine you’ve set out to tackle a new project. You sit down to start working on it. Maybe you even begin to make some headway. You send an email or two. You do some reading on the subject. Then it happens. You find yourself stuck…and then distracted…then gone, to Facebook.

What causes this? Why do we drift to unproductive behaviors that sabotage success? Especially when we want to do well! Why does this happen?

Most often it is because we never created a clear plan.

When I coach people, I almost always ask two questions at some point during the conversation.

1.) What do you hope to accomplish before out next appointment?

2.) How do you hope to make that happen?

The answer to these two questions, by and large, determines the kind of success that my client will experience over the next week. As powerful as coaching is, we have a saying as coaches. “The bulk of the work takes place between coaching.”

How do you go about making a clear, do-able, success insuring plan? Here are some tips.

  • Have a clear definition of success. For instance part of my work plan includes 5 blog posts each week. If I fall short of this I haven’t been successful in promoting my business, and the power of coaching.
  • Identify what you need. What resources, time, and energy will be required to be a success?
  • Create micro-goals to push you along. See this post on the subject from earlier in this series.
  • Make an appointment to work on the plan you’ve created.  A client of mine had class prep to do for a teaching job. She found herself worrying about whether or not it would get done. I had her put time on the calendar to create her lesson plan. This kept the task from causing anxiety because whenever worry lurked, she knew exactly when the project would be done.
  • KEEP THAT APPOINTMENT NO MATTER WHAT! The greatest plan will not produce results unless it is put into action!
  • Stay with it until the plan is completed. I write until my 5 posts are done…no matter what!
  • After the plan is finished, examine it, and make another plan.

One tool that I offer on my website is located at the bottom of the home page. It is a stress assessment and time management tool. I love to give it to people simply for subscribing to the blog. It talks in greater detail about how to put a plan into action! Check it out here.

The mission of Matthew Reed Coaching is “To make the world a more effective and God honoring place, through coaching.” I love to help people genuinely experience the life they have always wanted. I’d be thrilled to be able to share with you the power of coaching.”
  • http://lifestorybook.org/ Susan McKenzie

    Hi Matthew,

    I’ve been thinking often, the past few years especially, that mentoring is the best way to learn. Like fathering and mothering…  I wonder, do you feel coaching is similar to mentoring. Is there a difference?

    Thanks,
    sue

    • http://www.matthewreedcoaching.com/ Matthew Reed

      I am a big fan of mentoring, and have had several powerful mentors in my life. It’s related to coaching, but not exactly the same. 
      Coaching is two co-equals working together to help the client achieve a stated goal. Coaches use deep listening, powerful questions and motivational tools to help their clients make the life changes that they desire. Coaching is applicable to any desired change in life. 
      Mentoring is a relationship between a superior (mentor) and a subordinate (mentee). The mentor helps the mentee accomplish what they already have. Mentoring has a very specific application to those things that the mentor has accomplished. 
      Sorry for shoving 10lbs into a 5lb bag ;)  

  • http://www.thechoicedrivenlife.com/ Olga

    oh, I know exactly what you are talking about. Sometimes it is so hard to stay with the project and drift away to Facebook or some other platform, but I have bettered my self to stick with it until it’s done and when it’s done, it feels sooo good! Thanks Matthew!

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